Love By Chance: Thai Drama Review

The Gist: Timid, rich college student Pete's (Saint Suppapong Udomkaewkanjana) life changes when engineering student Ae (Perth Tanapon Sukhumpantanasan) hits him with his bike. The two develop an immediate friendship, with Ae stepping in to help handle a student threatening Pete because of his sexuality. The strong bond of their friendship begins to pose questions for Ae about what he feels for Pete and if it goes further than friendship. Ae's porn-obsessed, nosy roommate Pond (Yacht Surat Permpoonsavat) is desperate to help the naive Ae succeed in his romance, by any means necessary. But Pete's friend, Tin (Mean Phiravich Attachitsataporn), can't help interfering in his relationship because he believes them to be in a different class from Ae and his excitable friend Can (Plan Rathavit Kijworalak).

This. This. This. THIS! Pete and Ae are serious relationship goals. Aghhhh. In the beginning of the show, Ae never makes Pete feel bad about being gay or that they have to draw boundaries in their friendship because of it. Ae is always extremely honest with Pete and never lets misunderstandings survive between them. This develops a strong trust between them. When Ae starts having romantic feelings, he tells Pete about them. When he feels jealous, he tells Pete about it. What I love best is that Ae is not dumb about Pete's feelings. He guesses that Pete feels romantically for him and he says that he can tell the way Pete looks at him is different from the way he looks at others. So may characters like Ae can't take a hint if it hits them in the face, but Ae doesn't press Pete, but is very aware of the way they treat each other. I love that Ae wants to see Pete constantly, even before they start dating.

Let's talk about the physical stuff. Man, LBC really goes for it on that regard. Rather than a chaste kiss here and there, Pete and Ae can't keep their hands (mouths, bodies, lives) off of each other). I am usually happy for a few kisses in a drama, but this goes way beyond it. To borrow a phrase from Maggie Steifvater, both boys were hungry, but Ae had been starving longer. Once he touches Pete, it's like the floodgates were opened. He can be gentle, or throw Pete against a locker long enough to get his tie off. What is great is that Ae always checks for consent with Pete, when it's their first kisses or when they have sex, Ae always make sure Pete is OK with it. Bless poor Ae for needing to google how to have sex with Pete, but it's good to see that he is fairly insecure, even when he acts so confidently with Pete. The physical side of their relationship is built up on how strong their emotional bond is.

So, Pete has to come out to his mom in episode 1 and she is my hero. She is sure to make sure Pete knows she loves him not matter who he loves. She fully embraces his independence and Ae. She can tell that Ae is a good man and is wholly supportive of them. I always love when a drama goes for a supportive parent, especially because it makes such a difference in LGBT relationships. I am glad they show Ae meeting Pete's mom and her approving of him. It's very important to have this kind of representation in this age.

Let's talk about Pond. I was super annoyed by how openly perverse he is (who watches porn this openly???), but he is a surprisingly complex character. Although he is overly nosy, he really does want to support Ae. He may tease him but is happy to give him advice and set him up on dates. He even offers to buy Ae lube and slips him condoms. Ae doesn't want this much interference, but it's so nice that Pond really looks out for him. What really pushed Pond over the top for me is his experience with ChaAim (Cherreen Nachjaree Horvejkul), who you may recognize from Puppy Honey. He is so aggressively flirtatious with her at first, but when they finally start dating, he is so respectful of her body and choices. He is willing to go at her pace and never wants to pressure her. Really he has even more restraint than Ae does. I wasn't sure how they were going to resolve the way he is, but ChaAim handles him perfectly. Pond needs someone who can boss him around a little bit and ChaAim is perfect at that. Moreso, I love how supportive Pond and ChaAim are of Ae/Pete. Neither makes them feel weird about their relationship and I love the scenes with all four of them together. Actually this show is overwhelmingly supportive of Ae/Pete overall. It has a good message of tolerance.

Let's talk about Tin/Can. I think this show draws out their antagonism too long. I love hate to love relationships, but Tin is just a jerk for way too long. Pete gives him too much leeway. I get that he's got trust issues, but you can't just treat people like garbage without repercussions. In that sense, Can is a perfect foil. He doesn't let Tin get away with anything, which makes him more trustworthy to Tin. I think the change in Tin happens too fast. He goes from hating to pursuing him really quickly. No wonder Can has whiplash. Still, it's great to see Tin soften up. He is much more handsome when he is being vulnerable and kind.

I think aside from these stories, LBC is trying to tell too much. There's also a will they/won't they? thing with two stepbrothers and a weird high school student chasing the soccer coach thing. The story-lines are so randomly inserted and spread out that I just really didn't care about them. I was somewhat invested in the stepbrothers storyline, but the whole story is like less than one episode long. I don't think it builds it up enough and the entire story is just the younger brother keeping a secret while the older brother is supportive. It just didn't mesh well with the rest of the show. If they were going to keep these stories in, they should have built them up a bit. Otherwise, I'm just not sure it's worth keeping them in.

Final Grade: A

Because This is My First Life: KDrama Review

The Gist: When assistant drama writer Ji-ho (Jung So-min) quits her job after being sexually harassed and has to move out due to her brother's recent marriage, she's desperate for somewhere to stay. When mutual friends score her a great deal living with Se-hee (Lee Min-ki), she leaps at the chance, unaware that Se-hee is male. When they both realize the mistake, they are already comfortable living together. In classic drama logic, the fix to both their problems is simple: a two-year contract marriage. Naturally, it's hard to keep feelings out of it when you're living together for the first time. Ji-ho's best friends have their own issues. Marriage-desperate Ho-rang (Kim Ga-eun) can't seem to get her clueless boyfriend Won-seok (Kim Min-seok) to propose. Serial dater Soo-ji (Esom) can't seem to shake the friendly CEO Sang-goo (Park Byung-eun).

This is a good show, but it just wasn't the show I wanted it to be. I picked this show because I wanted something light and heart-warming. While it has the benefits of sweet romance, it is definitely a more melancholy show than I was expecting. I appreciate the show's frankness about the harassment of women. Ji-ho faces it through working with her director and her co-workers try to wipe the harassment under the rug and assure her that it's not a big deal. Ji-ho stands up for herself, but in a realistic sacrifice, she has to give up working on her project to do so. Soo-ji constantly faces unwanted advances from her co-workers, but has to put on a smile to keep her job and keep her reputation. Even though they're in the wrong, she's the one who will be judged if she kicks up a fuss. Even the younger cafe co-worker Bok-nam (Kim Min-kyu) is a harasser. He doesn't back off when Ji-ho says she's married and uninterested. I appreciate that Se-hee wrecks his motorcycle. Even though it was a "misunderstanding," him being young and hot doesn't excuse his behavior. It's not OK to comment on a woman's looks or touch her when you work with her.

This show spends a long time examining marriage as an institution an it is often fairly bleak in its portrayal. Still, I appreciate how deftly this show handles Se-hee. Se-hee is initially shown as inept at love, maybe even a little high-functioning autistic in his life skills. Yet, we realize as viewers that we are assuming a lot about Se-hee. Just because Ji-ho is inexperienced, we assume that Se-hee's behavior is due to his own inexperience. Yet, there is a neat twist in the last 2/3 of the show, where we realize that Se-hee is not inexperienced, but is unwanting. His behavior is meant to push people away and build walls. He has experienced and is dealing with his own pain. He knows what it means to be in love and hasn't fully processed his own experience enough to open himself up to more pain. While he is not overly smart with social cues, he is drawing boundaries to protect himself from what he doesn't think he deserves.

I also appreciate the care that is put into Ho-rang's relationship. Their relationship is not healthy by any means throughout most of the show. Their goals are not aligned and they can't communicate clearly. I was worried this show would just patch them up and push them together and I admire the bravery to break them up. It's short-term pain but for the good of both of them. By the time they get back together, they've had a chance to examine their feelings and their goals.

 Likewise, Soo-ji seems flippant, but like with Se-hee, you realize that her careful walls are built to avoid further pain. I appreciate Song-goo's willingness to accommodate the way Soo-ji is and why she's wary. Her ability to break down her walls with him are hard-earned.

My shining star is Bo-mi (Yoon Bo-Mi), who's the only female working at the Don't Marry, Date App. I appreciate that even though she fits in with the boys, she insists on wearing frilly, pink outfits. I also appreciate how much Se-hee and Bo-mi are alike and understand each other. Even though she's understated, she can let loose and party with the best of them. Bo-mi is my hero.

I have serious issues with the end of this show. So, Hi-Ho asks for a divorce. Even though she loves Se-hee. For... reasons? As far as I can tell, she just wanted to break him down completely so that he'll be honest with her and to me it just seemed... cruel. I get it if she wanted to travel and such, but she said she wanted to make love her priority, but rather than just talking to Se-hee like an adult about his past, she tortures him and makes him think she doesn't want him. Especially when she knows that he's going to confess and has real feelings for her. This just felt like such a drama move. Why have a conversation when you can have a dramatic divorce? This is just compounded by the fact that they end up registering their marriage anyway. Don't get me wrong, they needed to work some stuff out. But I think it would have been better to just talk like normal people rather than going through some huge "break-up." No bueno.

Final Grade: B-

The Untamed: Chinese Drama Review

The Gist:

Now: Wei Wuxian (Xiao Zhan) wields the most feared name in the lands - the Yiling Patriarch. Rumored to raise the dead, practice wicked sorcery, and spread destruction alongside his Ghost General, the Yiling Patriarch is assumed dead after the Bloodbath of the Nightless City. Yet, 16 years later, Wei Wuxian has returned and is trying to avoid discovery by his nephew, Jin Ling, and adopted brother, Jiang Cheng. But famed second-son cultivator of the strict and proper Lan Clan, Lan Zhan (Wang Yibo), has been looking for Wei Wuxian and has never given up hope of finding him alive. When Wei Wuxian pulls out his signature spiritual tool, the flute, the two are destined to meet again.

Then: Teenage Wei Wuxian travels to the Lan Clan's Cloud Recesses alongside adopted siblings Jiang Cheng (Wang Zhuocheng) and Yanli (Xuan Lu). The three are inseparable, even though Wei Wuxian is a notorious free-spirited trouble-maker that often gives the Jiang Clan a bad name. He immediately clashes with Lan Zhan upon arrival to Cloud Recesses. The two are yin and yang, black and white, undisciplined and trained, energetic and reserved. Yet, in terms of skills, the two are evenly matched and Wei Wuxian will not leave Lan Zhan alone. When the two are brought together to uncover the secret of Yin Iron, a dark spiritual tool that the fiery Wen Clan is using to manipulate and murder people and cultivators, a bond is forged that develops as the looming battle grows. Wei Wuxian and Lan Zhan will need all the help they can get from their peers: Nie Clan's quiet and nervous second-son (Ji Li), the medical specialist Wen siblings, Wen Ning (Yu Bin) and Wen Qing (Meng Ziyi), and the arrogant Jin Zixuan (Cao Yuchen). The Wen Clan's power grows as they continue to accumulate lost pieces of Yin Iron and slaughter at the hands of the assassin Xue Yang (Wang Haoxuan). Will Lan Zhan and Wei Wuxian be able to stand together when they suffer immense loss and trials? Will Wei's unorthodox personality be an asset or lead him down a darker path? Can Lan Zhan save him?

You'll notice by this description that this drama is a deep departure from my usual fare of sweet romances between plucky girls and cold boys. The Untamed is a sprawling fantasy epic that touts a huge cast of characters and a well-developed magic system. Yet, at its heart, it is a romance. Chinese censorship laws don't allow Lan Zhan and Wei Wuxian's relationship to live up to its original explicit romantic intimacy, but the two have a bond that goes beyond regular friendship. The Netflix summary calls them soul-mates, a word usually reserved for romantic bonds in Western use, but it is an apt term for their relationship. The two are drawn together and move in sync. When Lan Zhan finally puts his trust in Wei Wuxian, it is unwavering. Even when the entire world turns against Wei, Lan Zhan's faith in him is constant. Likewise, Wei Wuxian has an unfaltering trust in Lan Zhan's character and abilities. He puts his life in Lan Zhan's hands over and over again without a second thought. While the character-building in the first half of this show is important, the story truly shines when the two can spend more on-screen time together in the second half of the show. There are many great characters, but the relationship between Wei Wuxian and Lan Zhan is the shining star of this drama.

I found starting this drama to be a bit intimidating as there are so many characters (with so many names!) and multiple timelines. Yet, each character feels lived-in and well-developed. They each have well-defined strengths and weaknesses. While it took a while to learn them all, they are each a crucial piece of a larger puzzle. Between the Jiang siblings, Wei is so likable, Cheng is serious and harsh, and Yanli is a sweet angel. I had long worried for Yanli since we didn't see her in the beginning of the show. Spoilers follow: After seeing how close the three were, I had to wonder what inspired Cheng's strong hatred of Wei. It became clear somewhere around episode 20 that the only thing that would really drive them apart is if Wei is responsible for Yanli's death. This realization did little to soften the blow when she was killed, as she was the only person aside from Lan Zhan whose faith in Wei was always strong. The pain of Cheng's betrayal is magnified because when his Golden Core is taken, Wei doesn't even hesitate to provide him with his own spiritual energy. Wei bends over backwards to help Cheng, but Cheng's faith in Wei is fragile. The jealousy he feels poisons their relationship over the course of the show.

In the present timeline, I was so impressed with Jin Ling (Qi Peixin). He has the most reason to hate Wei Wuxian, but he is conflicted because he can see that Wei is a good man. If anything, he shows more reasoning than Cheng does. While there is definite resentment between them, I appreciate that the two were able to take the steps towards forging a relationship. Additionally, when the viewer finally realizes that the young cultivator in the Lan Clan (Zheng Fanxing) is little Yuan, my heart felt so full. Lan Zhan is a man of exceptional character and it's beautiful that he was able to save and raise Yuan, in completion of the work Wei Wuxian was trying to do.

This show constantly asks questions of morality: what is right and wrong? Lan Zhan struggles with this as Wei continues down an unorthodox path, but ultimately he can recognize what is right for himself, even when others would judge him. The Wen siblings are an interesting case of this. Trapped under the evil influence of the Wen Clan, Wen Qing is constantly complicit in evil acts, and is resistant to rebel in order to keep her weaker brother safe. That brother will not stand idly by however. When Wen Ning sees injustice, he does what he can to help. When Wei Wuxian needs help rescuing Cheng from the Wen Clan, Wen Ning does not hesitate to commit to helping him. The two ultimately can't help doing what's right, even when it ultimately results in their punishment and separation. All of the characters suffer, but the Wen siblings get beat up quite a bit. In all of that though, Wen Ning continues to aide Wei Wuxian. Even when he is judged as the Ghost General, he continues to do what he can.

Let's talk about the fact that this show spans 16+ years. If you look objectively at the actors, I would guess most of the main cast is in their mid-20's. Which is an issue when for more than half the drama they're supposed to be teens. OK, fine, lots of 20-somethings play teens. But then 16 years are supposed to have passed and everyone looks EXACTLY the same. I mean like same hairstyles even. I don't want people to look super fakey aged, but it's awkward to adjust how old these characters are supposed to be when Jin Ling is suddenly grown up but his uncles haven't aged at all. Oh well, I'm not really sure what they were supposed to do, but having everyone in the exact same look seemed like an odd choice to me.

This show layers character development alongside action-packed fight scenes. I usually avoid these kinds of shows because I am not one for monologuing villains and drawn-out plot machinations, but this show really shines in its characters. I think the pacing is a bit off between episodes 20-30as I was in a hurry to get an explanation about how we got to where the show started. Still, the amount of catharsis at the end of this show is infectious. Wei Wuxian gets to clear his name, Lan Zhan's stance is vindicated, and the plot is uncovered. Revenge is taken and people thought lost are recovered. After the pain the characters endure, it's a well-earned conclusion. Also, there's so many adorable bunnies. So. many. bunnies.

2Moons2: Thai Drama Review

The Gist: Cute Wayo (Earth Teerapat Ruangritkul) can't wait to start college with his longtime high school crush, the ever-gorgeous, smart, athletic Phana (Ben Brasier). Disappointingly, Pha can't seem to remember Wayo, but wastes no time picking on him relentlessly. When Wayo is selected as his department's moon, to represent his faculty in a school competition, he's going to give Pha a million chances to remember him. Both have supportive wingmen - Wayo has playboy engineering student Ming (Joong Archen Aydin/Chen) and Pha is flanked by fellow pre-med students Kit (Nine Kornchid Boonsathitpakdee) and Beam (Dome Woranart Ratthanaphast). Pha better get a move on as bad boy Forth (Pavel Naret Promphaopun) has clocked Wayo immediately, and he is not one for hesitation.

LET'S BACK UP. OK, so what's up with 2Moons? After I fell hard for BL with Sotus, I have been looking for another drama that is its equal (give me your recommendations please!!). I watched Make It Right (meh - too young, faking their kisses) and Love Sick (loved it but it moved a bit slow and again with the fake kissing. I now google this before I start a series. I just can't even with this.) Then I watched 2Moons. Based on a book series, I loved it immediately, watched the whole thing and then went to check in on the second season ... and the entire thing had been recast. I just couldn't handle the shock of it, so I didn't watch 2Moons2 for a long time. I think waiting meant I could come to the "second season" clean. Really, I think it's best to go into this thinking two things: this is more like a reboot than a sequel (although it runs longer into the story, it recaps the first season in the first three eps) and it's a cliff-hanger. That's a spoiler but I prefer to know that going in because I WAS SHOCKED when I hit the end. Now, I'm fairly worried about season 3. Supposedly the cast is confirmed, which better be true otherwise my heart may just give out. Still, I'm glad all this social distancing pushed me into finally catching up on this gem of a show.

So, in recommending this, honestly, I think 2Moons gives good background development with our characters but watching both, I actually prefer the new cast and I think since they recapped, you could reasonably just dive into 2Moons2. At the very least, now you know.

Prefer the new cast you say? Oh yes, let's dive into it.

So this cast had a tall order to fill. Fans of the series were really attached to the initial cast and many insisted on boycotting 2Moons2 (yeah, right) because of the change. It's jarring and people were angry, and these actors - brand-new, shiny, pretty, baby actors - stepped right up, did their homework, worked hard and crushed it. Really.

Our central pair is Pha/Wayo. Ben is such an expressive Pha, that the audience immediately connects with his feelings for Wayo. That moment when he realizes what's happening is pure gold. Ben demonstrates range, believably protective, jealous, and bullying, but with Wayo is just so soft and sweet. Also they kiss like they mean it. We are blessed, thank goodness - I just can't take this fake kissing anymore. My American sensibilities have no patience >.< So here is what I truly love about this story. Pha is a classic drama love interest. He's tall, and beautiful, and smart, and a doctor, and everyone wants him. Yet, he's always loved Wayo. Wayo didn't have to wear him down with pluck and persistence. From day 1, Pha and Wayo have been on the same page about each other, they just had to be brave enough to say something about it (specifically, Pha needed to be comfortable with his friends). I love this. Pha didn't wait for Wayo to get pretty, he loved him for who he was from the start, fully, completely, unconditionally. This speaks volumes about Pha as a character and evens out their relationship. I think about characters like Naoki from Mischeivous Kiss or Domyouji from Boys over Flowers, and Pha seems like that archetype, but doesn't put himself on a pedestal. He's humble (ok, humble-ish) and recognizes all of Wayo's best qualities. Wayo is a precious cinnamon roll, but I have some issues with the way he lashes out at Pha when he's jealous (don't run off with sexual predators to make your boyfriend jealous please!). But my love for Pha knows no bounds because rather than letting the misunderstanding continue, he tracks Wayo down and forces and honest/open conversation. This is how you have a healthy relationship, people!!

Next ship sailing is KitKat and Ming. This is a little more traditional: Ming is all about that Kit game and Kit tries so hard to just not. And you know what? I am not angry about it. Ming should have a warning sign. I'm sure all his exes thought they were special and the one. Kit is totally right to be skeptical and make Ming earn his trust and affection. In this pair, Ming definitely is the one with something to prove. It's Kit that needs to feel safe enough to open up, be vulnerable, and be loved for his flaws (not in spite of them). I love how shy but sassy Kit is. It's hilarious to watch interviews with Nine because he's so soft in person and so believably prickly as Kit (A+ job, Nine). Their story rightfully takes a little time, but the confession scene is so sweet: Ming is straight up open about being all in and Kit is open about being scared about his lovability. The kiss comes late but it feels very earned (and once again thank you for kissing like you mean it!!).

Oh my, I am still waiting for my heart to cool from watching Forth and Beam. The world is blessed now that Pavel is here. He is everybody's boyfriend. I live for this chaotic gay energy he is projecting into the world (thank you YouTube comments for this categorization, it's perfect). He hunts sweet Wayo down like an injured animal, and one kiss from Beam is enough to pounce. I'm impressed with how natural Pavel is as Forth, but I think he might just be Forth incarnate (blessedblessedblessed), so let's say well done on the casting. They say that the author of the books, Cake, saw him by his motorcycle and felt the Forth energy and the rest is history. Homie knows what's up. It seems like an understatement to say that they kiss like they mean it. They kiss like they're gasping for air.

So let's take a minute for how 2Moons2 addresses sex (don't expect R-rated material here, it's not that kind of show, unless you consider having a long look at Forth's underwear choices R-rated). Still, 2M2 knows that everyone is at different stages in their sexual readiness and respects that. Pha pressed Wayo about it, but respects that he isn't ready and waits for him (but you know, still makes sure he knows he's ready whenever Wayo is). Ming/Kit haven't quite gotten to that stage in their relationship as they're still working on the trust and vulnerability between the two of them. Forth/Beam were ready as soon as they closed the door in a room alone together and you know what? That's OK too (although my darlings make sure people are not so drunk they can't consent). They start their relationship physically and back into the emotional work, kind of working in reverse of Pha/Wayo. In short, there is no right way to have your relationship. The love is between two people and whatever is right for those two people is OK. If 2M2 shows us anything, it's that love is love is love is love.

The Angel Gang. Sassy. Fierce. Bold. Amazing. Again these girls are a bit stereotypical but rather than just having them as comic relief, they are true friends to Wayo. They comfort him through his trials, support him with Pha, and hunt down those who hurt him. I am loving their energy! They are each a treasure and when Cake shows up (reference to the author, but is also every person watching this show), she slides right into the group. They do not know how to slow down and they do not know how not to love themselves. We thought Forth was confident, but the Angels are here to slay. I hope we get more of them in season 3 because it was nice to get some development and respect for these types of characters. Again, love is love is love is love.

In short, I think 2M2 exceeded all of my expectations and did great honor to the source material. I recommend this to everybody with a beating heart. This filled the hole in my heart Sotus left, but what will I do until Season 3???? (sigh.)

Sotus S (Season 2): Thai Drama Review

The Gist: Kongpob (Singto) is now in his third year at college, and is reforming the SOTUS system as the head hazer. His long-term boyfriend, Arthit (Krist), is beginning his post-college career at the company of his choice, but in the procurement department instead of his preferred production department. Kongpob and Arthit navigate how to maintain this next phase of their relationship while dealing with new friendships and interactions in their separate environments.

Additionally, M finally pursues a relationship with May and Tew grapples with a new freshman to try to get him involved.

My thoughts:

So, I have lots of feelings about this show. The first season was almost perfect in my opinion. Many of the same things I enjoyed about that season, I also really liked about this one. The representation is great and the romance is sweet (if not extremely slow burning - like extremely, get to episode 9 my darlings).

With that said, I think the central relationship loses some of relatable situations with its time jump. Arthit is clearly grappling still with announcing that he is dating a man to those who aren’t close friends. Even Kongpob has been keeping this a secret from his family over this time. With that said, Arthit still seems so uncomfortable in his relationship with Kongpob. If this had picked up right after Kong’s freshman year, I would have bought it. But how many people are dating for two years and don’t kiss each other good-bye in the morning? I love that they casually stay over at each others’ places, that is very college life to me, but at 7 episodes into the show, I was still waiting for a kiss ( again, get to ep 9!). For this relationship to be this longstanding, Kong shouldn’t be begging for a kiss here and there. I understand with the stigma that Arthit wants to keep it low key, but when they’re alone, we should see them closer. As Arthit was the one who took more time to adjust being in a homosexual relationship, it makes sense that he’s the one lagging, but after two years, to me, it just doesn’t seem believable that he’s still like this.

Speaking of slow going, dear lord my little M and May. How have you both not figured it out yet. May is clearly long over Kong and they’ve gotten so close, it just defies all logic that they aren’t dating at the beginning of this show. It seems that the writers slowed their relationship down a lot so that the viewers could see the confession scene. Yet, the buildup for that wasn’t intense, so it’s harder still for me to think that they’d gone two full years without having that conversation.

Jumping back to Kong, my sweet angel of a confused boy, he really messes up in the middle of this season. It is one thing to want to be close to your boyfriend, it is another to intern at his job and move next door in the same day without asking him how he feels about it. What really grinds me about this is that there’s not really a believable reason for him not to talk to Arthit about it. Once he explains it, Arthit understands, so there’s no point in having that conversation afterwards rather than before. It seemed uncharacteristic for Kong and somewhat like manufactured drama. I will at least concede that this is a really new situation for all of them and with Kong not getting the closeness of the relationship he’s looking for, it kind of makes sense that he overcompensates. With that said, I’m glad Arthit gets mad about it because that is not a healthy way to interact with your significant other and is somewhat manipulative by backing them into a corner. Since we know Kong’s intentions aren’t so sour, I’m willing to forgive it, but I would be extraordinarily unhappy in Arthit’s shoes.

In short, the central theme of this season is Arthit becoming comfortable in being who he is. This is such an important story to tell because anyone in a non-traditional (aka straight) relationship has to keep coming out to everyone they meet ever. Coming out is not a one-and-done. There will always be more people to tell, more reactions to anticipate. So, even after two years, Arthit is facing the same crisis he did in the first season: is he confident enough in his feelings for Kong to tell everyone about it. As in the first season, the answer was always going to be yes, but it was important for them to get to this point. In one of my favorite Japanese dramas, Mischievous Kiss, there is this one scene I adore where the wife has to finally break down and say that she's the only one who is chasing after her husband, he never comes after her. This unbalanced love is what's been happening to poor, sweet Kong and he finally has to give Arthit the ultimatum. Kong can't always just be the one chasing and by the end of this series, their relationship is more balanced.

I am going to talk about the side characters for a bit. Earth is my favorite. She comes off cold at first but is a great ally for Arthit. I was so worried about a love triangle between her and Arthit, but she catches onto his feelings for Kong immediately and that's what makes her a great friend. She supports them, but lets him come out to her in his own time. I also love her relationship with Tod, which builds slow, but is very cute.

Yong and Nai are probably my favorite side couple. Yong has that same great longing that Kong is always able to portray. You can just tell how happy he is being near Nai and how preoccupied he is with Nai when they're apart. I think these two had fabulous chemistry and I really wished for slightly more concrete resolution between them.

Tew really gets a chance to shine in this in his relationship with Day. The progression is a bit odd, Day really flips from super not interested to totally sweet, but they work hard to get to know one another. Again, I was waiting for a blunt confession, but it goes a little under the radar.

Also, my favorite Prae gets a hot girlfriend. It's a quick scene, but I appreciate the world letting me know she is loved because she deserves everything!

So... I think this show had a less clear trajectory than season 1, but the great chemistry between Kong and Arthit continues to carry this show. Kong is so bold its like he is a lion hunting down a wounded Arthit. Arthit doesn't stand a chance. Arthit continues to be shy and adorable.

I will also say the flashbacks to their intervening school years are a true delight. It's great to see how they got comfortable in their relationship. I love it when Kong can't concentrate on his studies because he is so obsessed with Arthit and when Arthit carries Kong on his back.

My biggest gripe about this season is that the show takes the time to get Kong's father to like Arthit, but they never come out to his family. Kong is so close to his family and this is such an important step for queer youth, but they never tackle that hurdle together. By the end of this, they are still lying. This is totally understandable and again, very relatable for these types of experiences, but I would have liked to see that resolved before the end of the show.

So...

So, I felt a little like the show ended too quickly and then I discovered Episode 5 of Our Skyy. Our Skyy is a BL (Boy's Love) anthology that does a special episode for many BL couples. This is truly where I feel like we get the closure. Spoilers and please do yourself a favor and find this episode for yourself to finish up watching this. Kong gets accepted to his study abroad program in China. The two are finally living the way you'd expect, lovingly and in sync. This is clearly a huge hurdle for them to tackle and while Arthit wants Kong to follow his dream, it makes sense that this is a painful time for them both. I love that the show finally gets Arthit to deal with being shy and kiss Kong in public when it matters. When Kong pulls out those rings I nearly died. More importantly, I don't have to worry about my boys because they get through the separation and are together again. I truly feel at the end of this episode that my boys can conquer anything.

Speaking of my boys, I didn't watch the special episode at the end of season 1, so I went back to watch it at the end. Oh boy, what a delight! Singto and Krist are clearly very close, even in real life. You can tell that they took the time to get comfortable with each other and now like working together. All of the cast members talk about how there is no space between them and that is a real treat for the fans. I read lots of reviews saying that the chemistry between these two is one of the best. I haven't watched too many BL dramas (although now that I know it is a thing, I definitely will!), but I believe it. They worked really hard to bring this romance to life and I feel a little empty now that it is over.

Final Grade: A-

SOTUS the Series: Thai Drama Review

The Gist: When Kongpob (Prachaya Ruangroj) enters college in the faculty of engineering, he also has to undergo the hazing system at the school: SOTUS. The system is run by a group of third year students, lead by head-hazer Arthit (Perawat Sangpotirat). Kongpob immediately clashes with Arthit in defense of fellow freshman and the two start a longterm stand-off during their hazing session. Yet, Kongpob becomes attached to and concerned for Arthit, despite Arthit’s constant berating, as he begins to see that Arthit does have a good heart and has good intentions towards his cohort. Yet, does Kongpob have any hope that Arthit will return his feelings?

Love:

1. Kongpob

I am in awe of Kongpob as a character and of Prachaya Ruangroj as an actor. I was so excited to watch a drama with a queer romance. When every drama heroine is the same (poor, plucky, you know), Kongpob was a constant surprise and delight for me. He looked at Arthit with persistent longing that it was actually almost painful to watch, which is important for a show with rather low levels of skinship. The piece that really set him apart for me was the way he would come out and say the most outrageous things to Arthit with so much confidence, while clearly being so unsure of his relationship with him. The whole thing had me thinking, Kongpob is smooth as freaking silk!

Scene - Arthit gets a haircut
Arthit: How does it look?
Kong: You look perfect.
Arthit: You don't have to sweet talk me. This is serious.
Kong: It's so bad.
Arthit: What? Really?
Kong: Me. I'm so badly stunned.

Me: O.O I am also badly stunned.

I want to talk about the confession scenes because I think that Prachaya Ruangroj really shone in all of them with small but extremely effective choices.

Spoilers from this point on…

The first, when Arthit is staying in Kongpob’s room, Kongpob waits until he thinks Arthit is asleep and just pours his heart out to him. Prachaya Ruangroj does a great job of imbuing all of the pain, confusion, and hope when Kongpob is trying to explain this. This scene felt exactly like every first love confession, with just the raw emotion of fear but not being able to hide it all inside.

The second, when he’s on the balcony and Arthit finally calls him, Kongpob is squeezing his fist so tight, that you can tell it is actually physically paining him to get the words out. It was expertly done and when Arthit panics and hangs up the call, and all Kongpob’s worst fears come true, I was just broken inside.

Finally, when we get that long awaited kiss, Kongpob smiles so hard mid-kiss. The chemistry between these two just pops. Arthit does this little pleased, pensive v-shaped smile when he gets embarrassed around Kongpob. It’s all a great treat, but very relatable.

2. The Side Characters

I'm going to take a moment to love on Prae (Ployshompoo Supasap). She's a gorgeous, strong woman and as Kongpob is going through his whole love situation, she has the great courage to come out to her friends. I really think the nuance of this show's treatment of Prae allows this to normalize queer people for Kongpob. Not every girl within eyesight of Kong wants him. Prae has her own goals and is confident in herself and who she is. I have mad love for Prae.

M (Thitipoom Techaapaikhun) and May's (Neen Suwanamas) romance is also skillfully portrayed. May pining after Kong and M pining after May is just a circle of pain waiting to happen. Still Kong gives her a respectful if but firm no and M handles it perfectly. He is there to comfort her, let her know he's interested, but gives her the space to make her own decisions. It's all very healthy and still sweet. My only complaint about this pairing is that we don't really get to see them together. In fact, most of the girls are written off the end of the show. Still, it was great to see M overcome his shy side to make an effort for May.

Waad(Teerapat Lohanan)/Prem(Chanagun Arpornsutinan). After getting off on the wrong foot, Prem comes to Waad's rescue. They are so sweet to each other afterwords. I love the way their interactions change, however, it seemed to me a bit like they were flirting and the show never fully explores that. That really is the great thing about watching a queer romance: anything is possible. This is another thing that never gets explored much beyond surface-level, but was still a delight.

Knot (Ittikorn Kraicharoen) is the mature one of the group. He is a little underwritten early on, but is just a rock for Arthit while he figures out his romance. Knot doesn't let Arthit stew and in multiple scenes lets him know that he can talk to him about anything. And he means it! When Arthit finally takes him up on it, he is supportive and serious. He takes Arthit's problem sincerely and gives him excellent advice, the same way he would about a girl problem. Representation is so important in media and as it is in important for the gay teens specifically to see themselves represented, it is also so important to have representation on how to be an ally. People can't sort through life alone and it was great to see Arthit have someone he can lean on while he sorts out what loving Kongpob truly means for him.

3. Healthy Handling of Rejection

I will continue to sing Konpob's praises. As an avid drama watcher (obviously), I am used to the characters undergoing rejection to stop eating, fainting, making themselves sick, not taking no for an answer, and a whole other lineup of very unhealthy behaviors. When Arthit pulls back from Kong, he takes some time to cry it out and be depressed, before deciding that he needs to find a way to move on and respect Arthit's decision. But he also takes the time to respect himself. When Arthit comes back to him, Kong sets the boundary that they can't just be casual friends without giving Kong too much hope. I was so proud of him because handling heartache at that age is almost impossible (or you know, any age) and he was able to be respectful of his needs and Arthit's.

So...

I only have on real complaint about this show. It's that in the ending episodes when M tells Kong he didn't know that Kong liked men, he says he doesn't, he only likes Arthit. I feel a little like this is doing the characters a disservice. Bi characters don't really get the visibility they should and it seems that both Kong and Arthit are likely bi and I would have liked to see that more fully embraced. With that said, I bet this is a very real experience for some bisexual people, when they have their first realization that they are interested in someone in particular.

In short, I simply adored this show. It was somehow short and also a bit of a slow-burn romance. This is the type of show you can easily watch in one sitting. The chemistry between Arthit and Kongpob was beautiful, sweet, and relatable and Kongpob was the best kind of protagonist. Looking forward to re-watching this and diving into the second season soon!

Final Grade: A++

CDrama Review: Well-Intended Love

The Gist: Young, aspiring actress Xia Lin (Simona Wang) is mortified when she is diagnosed with leukemia. Determined to not let this diagnosis prove fatal, she tracks down her only matching bone-marrow donor, CEO Ling Yizhou (Xu Kai Cheng) to save her life. He agrees, with one stipulation: she has to agree to marry him for two years. With no other options, she agrees. Although she tries to convince herself it’s only an arrangement, she starts to fall for Yizhou and the fairy-tale life he offers her.

OK. Spoiler time..

The Real Gist: Insane psychopath becomes obsessed with a girl who is nice to him one time, stalks her for several years, forges her medical documents to trap her in a marriage with him.

Yeah. Really. Which is beyond a shame because I actually enjoyed this show for the most part until this reveal. However, the depth of this deception totally undoes all the kindness he shows her. All of the rules he places on her, the contract he makes her sign, the loyalty of his friends, all suddenly seems sinister. I don’t mind a good psychopath, but let’s call it what it is. Ling Yizhou doesn’t just have some quirks, he has no real understanding of anyone but himself. 

To Xia Lin’s credit, she does not take this lying down. She freaks out and calls him out for every insane thing he has led her to believe and he traps her inside their home! He truly does not care for how she feels, only that he gets to keep her. I am so proud of her for standing up to him and not letting her feelings get in the way of the abuse he’s put her through.

Because that is what it is. Ling Yizhou stalks her and then gaslights her for her entire marriage. I was waiting for him to show some remorse, but he says he didn’t think through how this would affect her and then proceeds to tell her that he would do it over again given the chance. To me, this shows that Yizhou is a literal psychopath because he lacks the basic empathy to think from another person’s perspective (especially someone he claims to love). No one with any sense of empathy or compassion would be able to do this cruel chess game.

There is a huge issue here with consent and agency. Yizhou does not give Xia Lin any chance to make a choice with him. And the crazy part is, he didn’t even try to give her one. He is capable of kindness, and he’s good-looking, and rich and can even help with her career, but instead of earning her trust, building a relationship, and asking her out like a normal person, he forces her hand. It’s taking the hate-to-love relationship SO far. He doesn’t want to put in the effort to date her on her terms, so he plays house with her until she normalizes it.

All the sacrifices you think he’s making for her just aren’t real. All the teasing he puts her through is really just him controlling her. Honestly, this is the first time I am fully on the side of the villain. I am not going to watch this show long enough to figure out what his deal is, but he was in the right to let Xia Lin know that Ling Yizhou is not being honest with her with something as serious as her health.

Also, can we talk for a quick minute about how she bites him to get him to let her go AND HE DOESN’T. I think the writers were trying to make this seem romantic in that he would stay by her no matter what. But when it’s in the confines of her being held hostage, it’s honestly just scary. She is physically fighting against him and he does not let her go.

I don’t think all drama romances are healthy. Many leads behave irresponsibly and unkindly and childishly. However, this is beyond anything I have witnessed before and I just can’t personally forgive a character who is so morally reprehensible. Everything I thought I liked about him just seems distressing now. I’d prefer to finish this show thinking that she just left him because she deserves better.

Finally, he had a chance to come clean with her. That wouldn’t have really made it better, but it would have at least shown some ounce of self-reflection. If he eventually gets to that point in the show, I don’t need it. There are better shows out there with less toxic overtones.

And to think - I was actually worried about the amnesia plot. Ugh. No Bueno.

Final Grade: F